What you are about to learn
Problems come in our lives as we don’t expect it. Sometimes, for some reason, we might expect it, but most of the time, don’t. And, those unexpected problems come consecutively; thus, if these problems keep on coming in, we call this situation as Stormy Wheather. Anyway, those storms can be violent, and they can be unpredictable. So when we talk about stormy weather, the storms of life, the things that interrupt your ultimate life or your pursuit of life, or your happiness. And here’s what I want to think about. I don’t control the weather. And that language reveals a lot about how we feel. The language of pain, that’s how we describe what’s happening to us. So if we say they, and we blame external forces a lot, then we are using what I call the victim’s language. So we are blaming external things for damage.
So Perse that we don’t control the situations, those problems that are coming into our lives. But, what we hold is our experience around these external events. We have a choice. We always have a choice. And that is to go through the situation as it is. We intend to go through the case as a victim or go through the trouble as an owner. Now the event happened either way. Our choice is to lay down and get smashed, as a victim, complain about the circumstances, bitterly rage against the weather, or the economy, or the bad guys, or worst, we blame God. That’s the victim approach. Further to that approach, we then spend much time thinking about revenge. A victim is Typically worried about themselves only, and an owner takes control.
When stormy weather strikes you, whether it’s in the form of relationship difficulty or financial difficulty, or personal health challenges, or business reversals, or depression or mental illness or any setback or struggle or doubt or fear. I was hoping you could think about whether you want to go to it as a victim or an owner. To create your ultimate life, however, being a victim is not the best way to go. I know that you already know that because you are a mature being, we all are. Take the ownership, whatever storm may come to your life. That is the way how to handle things towards your ultimate life.
“If you choose to ask a simple question, which is given, what is what do I wish to create that that position of not letting the weather control you, but you controlling your reaction to the weather. And of course, I’m using the weather as a metaphor for all those things. You controlling your reaction to the metaphor is a faster path to self-mastery, a faster path to joy, a faster path to true happiness, and ultimately, it is the fastest path for you to create your ultimate life.”
“I want you to think about whether or not you want to go to it as a victim or an owner. A victim will mostly say, “They did this to me, look what happened to me.” An owner says, “Hmm, this happened, what can I learn from this? What can I do with this, given what is what do I wish to create?” If you choose to take control of your emotion, your reaction to any given situation is a faster path to self-mastery, a quicker path to joy, a quicker path to true happiness, and ultimately, it is the quickest path for you to create your ultimate life.”
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