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Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 130: Episode 130 – When Will it Heal?

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 130: Episode 130 – When Will it Heal?

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 130: Episode 130 – When Will it Heal?

 
 
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In this podcast we talk about deep wounds. We have all heard the term “wounded child.” What is that? Does everyone have that inside? Whether you got some wound in your childhood or have recent painful experiences that feel insurmountable, we do all have wounds that impede our progress.

The key to moving past them is to recognize that they only have power that we give them. Even if someone close to you hurts you in difficult ways, you can take action to protect yourself, and then to move on to create the life you want. Sometimes the pain comes and goes, but there are effective and powerful ways to keep going so those events do not rob you of your “Ultimate Life.”

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 129: Episode 129 – Do the Work, Love the Work

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 129: Episode 129 – Do the Work, Love the Work

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 129: Episode 129 – Do the Work, Love the Work

 
 
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In this podcast, we talk about doing what you love vs. loving what you do. Some have said you need to find what you are passionate about and then do that. “Do what you love and the money will follow.” That may or may not be true, depending on how you go about achieving it.

Searching for the one true thing may take a long time and you may not recognize it when you find it. I have learned that it is more effective to learn to love what you are doing. You have decided to spend your time and your life as you are now. Learn to love what you have and go all in where you are right now. Then you will be able to find the things you love and create abundance from them.

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 128: Episode 128 – Listening – An Art

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 128: Episode 128 – Listening – An Art

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 128: Episode 128 – Listening – An Art

 
 
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In this podcast, we discuss an essential skill to the Ultimate Life. Since serving others is an essential ingredient in the Ultimate Life, we must learn to listen. What is listening? It is not just hearing the words someone says, even if you are able to remember them perfectly. I learned that the hard way.

We not only listen to words, we listen to nuance, emotions expression, and feeling. We hear the unspoken. In addition to listening to someone, we learn to listen with them, as if we were on the same side of the table. We also learn to listen to pattens by listening for things in conversation. This deep effort can only be motivated by love. The foundation of good listening is love and a desire to serve.

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 127: Episode 127 – Being Open to Change

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 127: Episode 127 – Being Open to Change

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 127: Episode 127 – Being Open to Change

 
 
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In this podcast, we talk about how hard it is to change. We got where we are slowly and after a great deal of repetition. Your beliefs came about by slow and repeated experience. Just like your physical condition today, whether it is good or bad, came as a result of repeated action or inaction.

The first step to being different and moving toward and Ultimate Life is to find those things you want to change. Regardless of what has come before and no matter how deep the habit is, you can change. Understanding the truth of possibility and then being open and determined to change the things you want different is the first step. Humility and seeking help is also required as we make changes.

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 126: Episode 126 – Love Through the Hate

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 126: Episode 126 – Love Through the Hate

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 126: Episode 126 – Love Through the Hate

 
 
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In this podcast, we talk about the choices we have about how to act in a world where there is so much hate and anger. Why is that happening? The basic motivator is fear. We fear that we have no control over our lives and circumstances. That fear comes out as anger and hates towards anyone in the way.

We can’t control what others do. We can’t control all the years and decades of trouble that have brought us to our current reality. We have the choice to hide away and pretend we don’t see, or we can choose to love. Love is the only antidote to what we are seeing. You and I can be one candle and source of love through the cloud of fear, anger, and hate that is everywhere. Love leads to inner peace.

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 125: Episode 125 – Look Up, Reach Up, Rise Up

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 125: Episode 125 – Look Up, Reach Up, Rise Up

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 125: Episode 125 – Look Up, Reach Up, Rise Up

 
 
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In this podcast, we talk about the sometimes harsh reality of getting smacked down. There are things in life that we don’t expect, and we can’t plan for. They come anyway, and when they do, it can be painful. It can feel like we are destroyed and cannot recover again. That is never true. You can go forward.

The first step is to look up. Up is a metaphor for heaven, look to God, look to your higher self. There is always a feeling of “up” if we don’t reject it. Next, we can reach up. This is the process of allowing help in our lives. The idea that we do it “alone” is a damaging myth. Reaching up is looking for and allowing help in our lives. Lastly, we rise up. It is always possible, no matter what has happened to be resilient.

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 124: Episode 124 – It’s Not “Out There”

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 124: Episode 124 – It’s Not “Out There”

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 124: Episode 124 – It’s Not “Out There”

 
 
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In this podcast, we talk about the tendency we have to look for solutions outside ourselves. If I want to learn a skill, then I find someone who knows and watches and learns. So to get a skill, getting instruction and help can be the fastest way to learn. Often we think happiness comes from “out there.”

Every important aspect of the Ultimate Life is from the inside. We choose in every moment how we experience life. There is nothing in our experience that we have not called to ourselves. Choosing to take responsibility for every aspect of the quality of our lives is the first step to freedom. When we have lived as the “victim” for a long time, it can be scary owning up to our roles as creators. Do it anyway.

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 123: Episode 123 – We Don’t Have Forever

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 123: Episode 123 – We Don’t Have Forever

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 123: Episode 123 – We Don’t Have Forever

 
 
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In this podcast, we will talk about our own mortality. Not really about death and dying, but about the fact that we have a limited time here in this mortality. What we choose to do with our time determines the quality of our experience here. It also affects our living the Ultimate Life.

One question is “Do goals matter?” One argument is that we should just go with the flow and take things as they come. Living for the moment. That is the path of least resistance and does not use our time in the service of others. That is not the same as living in the moment. Goals do matter, and they can be wonderful if we use them as an embodiment of love and not slave drivers.

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 122: Episode 122 – We Are Created to Have Joy

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 122: Episode 122 – We Are Created to Have Joy

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 122: Episode 122 – We Are Created to Have Joy

 
 
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In this podcast, we will continue on the love angle. You were created by a God of wonders and miracles. He created the amazing bodies that we have with all the astounding parts and functions. Take the neurotransmitters for example. When we serve each other, our body chemistry makes us feel good.

When we are close to another person, or close to an animal, certain feeling arise in us. We were made to feel the joy of companionship and connection. We choose our actions and more importantly, our attitudes every second. If we choose to search for opportunities to serve, and we realize that love is the only reality, then we can live in a complete state of joy, every day all day. Sounds crazy, but it’s real.

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 121: Episode 121 – Each Person Is Worthy of Love

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 121: Episode 121 – Each Person Is Worthy of Love

Your Ultimate Life with Kellan Fluckiger 121: Episode 121 – Each Person Is Worthy of Love

 
 
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In this podcast, we will talk about who we really are. You are created by God and you are His child. As such, you have the seeds of divinity inside you. That may be hard to see or believe when we see some of the sad and cruel things that happen, but it is still true. So what do we do with that?

Every single person cam from the same place, and more than that, we all chose to come here. You have a divine origin and a divine purpose. If you want it, you have a divine destiny. When love is absent, the consequences are disastrous. In fact, that creates much of the pain and cruelty we see. I can’t fix the world but I can love in my sphere of influence. You may think that it won’t matter but try it.